Finding Purpose in your Pain


“Your True Purpose is woven into your deepest wound”

Pain is not only a physical but mental and emotional as well. Just think of the feelings involved after a recent breakup, a negative remark from a loved one, or a demotion at work. Emotional pain is something we also avoid at all costs, and can be just as hazardous to our health. It is the reason addiction is so powerful and has such a draw—substances numb pain. They also numb other emotions, including happiness, shock, love, lust, and a host of others. But they do numb pain. And thus we are drawn to that experience for a PURPOSE!!God-has-a-purpose-for-your-pain-a-reason-for-your-struggles-and-a-reward-for-your-faithfulness.-Don’t-give-up

Ultimately, pain is a part of life.  Pain is something that informs us we are alive, and ought to stay that way. Pain inclines us to alter our behavior. Pain, in a way, is an aspect of the initial process of healing.  It is a lesson from our bodies not to repeat that behavior. 

However, that state is not permanent, either physically or emotionally. And so we must learn to live with a certain amount of pain in life. Perhaps, rather than attempting to avoid pain at all costs, we should try to learn from it, learn that some pain is a part of a process in healing and improving and a vehicle to assist us in reaching our PURPOSE.

Some pain indicates that we should not repeat past mistakes. Some pain may be inexplicable, but at least it reminds us of how our bodies and ourselves endure and stay alive.

3 things you Should know about Pain & Purpose

1-Your greatest Pain is usually where your Purpose lies.

2-Your Purpose is to never give up.

3-Every detail of your Pain works to your Advantage.






At some point in our lives we have all experienced some type of Pain and or hurt.  The Webster’s dictionary definition of Pain is something or someone that causes trouble, anger and  or suffering.   Although, it does not feel good neither is it attractive, there is a Purpose to your Pain that will produce Power!!learning is a gift pain

There are two types of pain, physical and emotional.  I am going to focus on the emotional side of pain.  The emotional side entails any type of disappointment, heart brake, rejection and or manipulation.   At times, this type of pain can hurt just as much as extreme physical pain.  Some symptoms are lack of focus, depression, lack of appetite, eating too much, isolation and fear.

Below are tips that could possibly assist you in getting rid of your Pain!!

1-Learn to listen-We don’t learn from talking but we learn from listening.

2-Be real & be transparent-Be unique, be honest & be yourself.

3-Don’t entertain negative behaviors

4-Turn your pain into power-Take action. Share love instead of hate. 

Although, I have found one of  the best remedies for going through Pain is communication (talking about it ) however, the most important thing to  remember is that your Pain has a Purpose and your Purpose can produce Power!!